Tuesday, March 1, 20117:41 AM
■ I have dreams...
I have dreams that I would want to achieve. I have thoughts that I wish would be able to bring me forward to the place, position I want to be.
There are so many things that I have seen in life that I would stop and question myself, is my life worse than those that I have seen? The answer is No.
Many a times, many do not realise that things that had made them flare up and screamed at the top of their voice and also make them get headache, are things that are so small, that they do not amount to anything in their life at all.
But many fail to look at that point. They have missed the point. They have gotten lost when they are in the process of making themselves a fool. During that period of time, they could have sat down and think things through instead of making situations turn bad. However, they do not think, they act on it. Its as though they have lost control of themselves, their minds and their reactions. They merely wanted to get someting out, to see the result at that very instance. Which of course is impossible.
They just want to make themselves satisfied with whatever may come. And thus, in the end, its all about shoutings and hittings. Which at the end of the day, doesnt even solve problems at all.
In many instances, when one is angry, what do you do? Do you cool yourself down, and try to reason out what had actually happened and what could have been avoided? Or would you simply feel like charging ahead in order to head butt the other party and make them unconscious?
This is all about EQ, how you are able to control yourself or not. Whether the mind has the control more or the heart that has the control and manuveurs you forward.
There are things that I would not understand in terms of humans. Why do they have to resort to using their hands and not by using the brains? Be it well educated or not. We all have a brain. And the things that we argue for. The topics could simply bore ourselves out if we were to jot them down. The little things in life can trigger that snap button. The little things, even an ant, could make a calm situation turn into a violent situation. And why would it turn into that? Due to ourselves. We are all humans, we feel and we all have egos. And when we are those who are not humble and would like to brag about our ability, that is where one shows their authority and makes it known to others. In the wrong way. At the end of the day, we all become fools, for not being able to think. And not cause of being forced, but purely due to the fact that we wish to behave that way.
The upbringing of one kid, and in due time when we become teenagers, that is where we would be able to see, whether we have been brought up the right way or not. We all have worries in life. We all have problems. But everyone just wish to overlook that part and lead a good life. Without any worries or so, the perfect life that we would have wanted. But we all forget that life is full of balance, its either we have this or that in life at that point of moment. We are all created and came into this World for a reason and not to occupy the limited space. So why can't humans react in a calmer way? Why can't we jsut sit down and have a good talk. Its not easy to talk things out and to get it solved immediately. It takes time, and effort. Even if I wish to talk and you do not wish to give way, there's no way things would solve.
As always it takes two hands to clap and it takes a crowd to clap to get the applause. But when one fellow just simply clap, it would be meaningless and he/she would look like a fool.
Many a times, humans would argue who is right and who is wrong, but at the end of the day, we all know that we are all in the wrong. We would have done this to provoke him/her and thus they did something to us. But however well we know that particular theory, we would never be able to get that into other people's mind and to let them understand that things would have to be done in a particular way in order to fix it. Like fixing a clock? Therefore, they would always feel like there is no solution to that problem at all. Everything would not work even if they did not go for a try.
"Everything and anything is possible if we only would give it a try."
There are so many things that I have seen in life that I would stop and question myself, is my life worse than those that I have seen? The answer is No.
Many a times, many do not realise that things that had made them flare up and screamed at the top of their voice and also make them get headache, are things that are so small, that they do not amount to anything in their life at all.
But many fail to look at that point. They have missed the point. They have gotten lost when they are in the process of making themselves a fool. During that period of time, they could have sat down and think things through instead of making situations turn bad. However, they do not think, they act on it. Its as though they have lost control of themselves, their minds and their reactions. They merely wanted to get someting out, to see the result at that very instance. Which of course is impossible.
They just want to make themselves satisfied with whatever may come. And thus, in the end, its all about shoutings and hittings. Which at the end of the day, doesnt even solve problems at all.
In many instances, when one is angry, what do you do? Do you cool yourself down, and try to reason out what had actually happened and what could have been avoided? Or would you simply feel like charging ahead in order to head butt the other party and make them unconscious?
This is all about EQ, how you are able to control yourself or not. Whether the mind has the control more or the heart that has the control and manuveurs you forward.
There are things that I would not understand in terms of humans. Why do they have to resort to using their hands and not by using the brains? Be it well educated or not. We all have a brain. And the things that we argue for. The topics could simply bore ourselves out if we were to jot them down. The little things in life can trigger that snap button. The little things, even an ant, could make a calm situation turn into a violent situation. And why would it turn into that? Due to ourselves. We are all humans, we feel and we all have egos. And when we are those who are not humble and would like to brag about our ability, that is where one shows their authority and makes it known to others. In the wrong way. At the end of the day, we all become fools, for not being able to think. And not cause of being forced, but purely due to the fact that we wish to behave that way.
The upbringing of one kid, and in due time when we become teenagers, that is where we would be able to see, whether we have been brought up the right way or not. We all have worries in life. We all have problems. But everyone just wish to overlook that part and lead a good life. Without any worries or so, the perfect life that we would have wanted. But we all forget that life is full of balance, its either we have this or that in life at that point of moment. We are all created and came into this World for a reason and not to occupy the limited space. So why can't humans react in a calmer way? Why can't we jsut sit down and have a good talk. Its not easy to talk things out and to get it solved immediately. It takes time, and effort. Even if I wish to talk and you do not wish to give way, there's no way things would solve.
As always it takes two hands to clap and it takes a crowd to clap to get the applause. But when one fellow just simply clap, it would be meaningless and he/she would look like a fool.
Many a times, humans would argue who is right and who is wrong, but at the end of the day, we all know that we are all in the wrong. We would have done this to provoke him/her and thus they did something to us. But however well we know that particular theory, we would never be able to get that into other people's mind and to let them understand that things would have to be done in a particular way in order to fix it. Like fixing a clock? Therefore, they would always feel like there is no solution to that problem at all. Everything would not work even if they did not go for a try.
"Everything and anything is possible if we only would give it a try."
